āItās a joy to inspire others. Being the inspirator ā the spark behind their light ā is twice the blessing.ā
ā Dr. Michelle Evans āØ
When Words Found Me
I didnāt plan to create this quoteāit found me. It was born in a quiet moment of reflection, somewhere between exhaustion and gratitude. I was thinking about how much energy Iāve poured into others. I encourage them, guide them, and remind them of their worth. Then I realized something profound. Iāve spent so much of my life trying to inspire others. Rarely have I paused to acknowledge what that truly means.
Then came the question: Who inspires the inspirer?
That single question led to a flood of thought. I realized that the real joy isnāt simply in inspiring others. Itās in becoming the inspirator. It involves quietly fueling othersā light even when her own flickers. That realization felt like a divine whisper. It reminded me that sometimes, our most powerful form of inspiration is not what we say or do. It is who we are when no one is watching.
Where the Quote Was Born
The inspiration for this quote came from a student I met during an interview workshop. It was hosted by PASE at Purdue Global, my Alma mater for my masterās degree. I was one of the interviewers, engaging with three students to assess their readiness for the professional world.
The last student I interviewed stood out quickly. She aspired to become a biomedical engineer. She wanted to focus on research to develop solutions for people who share the same medical condition she lives with. Her purpose was deeply personal, and I could sense her determination.
At the end of our conversation, she asked me for advice. It was not for herself, but for a friend who was a nurse. I gave her my email address, encouraging her to reach out anytime. I didnāt hesitate; something in our brief connection felt genuine and lasting.
Days later, I received an email from her that read:
āGood morning, Dr. Evans,
I hope this email finds you well. I wanted to thank you again for serving as my interviewer during the PACE Interview Workshop. I appreciated hearing about your journey from being a nurse to pursuing management roles, and your reflections on balancing work with motherhood. As an aspiring biomedical engineer, I strive to approach my career with the same empathy, adaptability, and leadership you described.
I’m very grateful for the insights you shared and hope to stay in touch.
Warm regards,
Reading her words filled me with quiet joy. I felt a sense of accomplishmentānot for anything grand or public, but for a single, meaningful connection that mattered.
It reminded me that we donāt need hundreds of followers, endless praise, or countless interactions to make a difference. Sometimes, one genuine exchange is enough. One conversation. One light sparked. One heart touched.
And thatās when my quote was born:
āItās a joy to inspire others. Being the inspirator ā the spark behind their light ā is twice the blessing.ā
That single connection reminded me that to be the inspirator doesnāt require a stage. It only requires sincerity, compassion, and the willingness to pour light where itās needed most.
The Meaning Behind the Quote
To inspire others is to awaken something within them. Itās the joy of seeing someone believe in themselves again, to watch their eyes light up with new strength or purpose. But to be the inspiratorāthatās something deeper.
Being the inspirator means becoming the spark that ignites someoneās inner light, not through words alone, but through the quiet example of resilience, authenticity, and grace. It means living in such a way that your very presence reminds others that healing is possible, joy is attainable, and purpose is within reach.
Itās not about attention. Itās not about validation. Itās about connection. Because when you are the spark behind someone elseās light, you experience a joy far greater than applauseāitās the blessing of knowing youāve touched a soul in a lasting way.
The Power of Being the Inspirator
Becoming an inspirator doesnāt happen by chance. It happens through experiences that humble you, shape you, and teach you empathy. It happens when youāve walked through darkness long enough to recognize light when you see itāand to share it freely.
The inspirator doesnāt force inspiration; she lives it. She knows that kindness, vulnerability, and courage are silent teachers. She understands that her story, even the parts she once hid, carries wisdom someone else might need to hear.
To be an inspirator is to stand in your truth with love. Itās the courage to be real in a world that often rewards masks.
How Inspiration Flows
Inspiration is circularāit moves through giving and receiving. When you inspire others, their growth reflects back on you, often in ways you least expect.
Sometimes, being someoneās light helps you rediscover your own. Sometimes, hearing āyou helped meā is the healing you didnāt know you needed.
The beauty of inspiration is that it multiplies. One act of kindness, one word of encouragement, one moment of vulnerability can ripple outward and reach hearts you may never meet. Thatās the legacy of the inspiratorāthe quiet impact that continues long after the words fade.
From Rock Bottom to Rising
Before this quote came to life, I had written another one:
āMy rock bottom is not my defeat. Itās a piece of the puzzle to a masterpiece being created.ā
That earlier quote was born out of paināout of moments where I felt broken, unseen, and uncertain of my worth. But what I now realize is that rock bottom wasnāt my ending; it was my awakening. It forced me to sit with myself, to reflect on what truly mattered, and to rebuild not from desperation, but from self-compassion and peace of mind.
It was through that season that I discovered my greatest strength: the ability to love, to help, and to bring joy to others even when I was still healing. That journey laid the foundation for this new quoteābecause only when youāve been through darkness can you understand the value of being someone elseās light.
My Personal Reflection
This quote reminded me of my own journey. There have been moments when I felt dimmed by exhaustion, weighed down by expectations, and uncertain of my own strength. Yet somehow, even in those moments, I still found myself encouraging others.
At first, I didnāt understand how I could pour from a half-empty cup. But Iāve learned that sometimes, in lifting others, you rise too. Being the inspirator isnāt about perfectionāitās about presence. Itās about choosing to show up with love, even when youāre still healing.
And thatās the blessing I found in these words: the realization that inspiration is not a taskāitās a way of being.
Closing Blessing
If youāve ever doubted your purpose, remember this: somewhere, someone is watching you rise. In your rising, they find strength. You donāt need to be flawless to inspireāyou just need to be real.
So shine in your truth. Live with love. Be the spark behind someoneās light.
Be the inspirator. āØ
Dr. Michelle Evans
Wings of Courage
Rise strong. Roam far. Live true.

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